Young mother exposes ‘preggophile’ who 'masqueraded as a woman' (2024)

A mother of twins has revealed how she confronted a 'preggophile' creep who masqueradedas a pregnant woman in order to stealpictures of expecting mothers' bulging bellies for a fetish site.

The Australian Multiple BirthAssociationand Canadian and NZ groups issued a warningrecently after discovering a bogus user known as 'Afina Petrescu' had infiltrated their private online groups.

UK woman Cerys Rumsey, 24, from Newport, South Wales, confronted the rogue on Facebook earlier this month.

She said he revealed his exotic 'Afina' identity was a fake used to infiltrate pregnancy groups because he 'loved' pregnant women - and alleged his real name was Paul.

'I'm off to b*** my pregnant wife now huba huba,' Afina told Ms Rumsey, who runs the popular 'Anything goes with crazy mothers of multiples' chat group.

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Cerys Rumsey, 24, from Wales, confronted the vagrant 'Afina' online earlier this month and said he revealed his exotic identity was a fake - and that his real name was Paul

'Yea bye bye going to b*** my pregnant wife': Ms Rumsey confronted Afina on Facebook after he tried to join her private group, one of many around thew world the user is said to have infiltrated

The so-called 'preggophile' would steal bump photos of mothers expecting multiples and post them on fetish sites. Ms Rumsey, who is pictured above, said:'There's actually a name for it so they think that's OK'

Ms Rumsey said the vagrant was tripped up by her group's strict screening process. It only took a quick 'reverse image' Google search for her to twig Afina was fake.

'All of these accounts created by Paul... were getting exactly what they wanted by fooling many women who are mothers to multiples,' Ms Rumsey said.

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'The photos were taken and posted on ['preggophilia' websites] for other men who share the same fetish.

'There's actually a name for it so they think that's OK'.

In Australia, the Multiple Birth Association (AMBA) sounded the alarm after word spread Afina had been collecting images of women from local pages.

Group spokeswoman Ali Mountifield issued the warning after discovering Afina had joined her Canberra group.

She said many international mothers' groups had joined together in compiling a list of fake profiles in the days since her organisation issued a warning.

'We're all trying to work together to pull these fake profiles out and just say to people "this one's a little bit suss, what do you think?'"

But for most of the profiles, 'it all stems back to Paul,' she said.

In some posts, Afina had used the bump shot of Sydney mother Megan Ireland, 24, in a bid to solicit other women into posting their shots to his preferred fetish site.

'It makes me feel sick,' Ms Ireland, from Baulkham Hills, told Daily Mail Australia earlier this month. 'That's my child in my stomach and people out there are doing really gross things.'

Facebook user 'Afina' masqueraded as Sydney mother Megan Ireland (pictured). He posting her photo (above) to Facebook alongside an invitation for other women to post their own photos

Megan Ireland, a Sydney mother-of-two, said she felt ill when she realised the 'preggophile' Facebook creep had stolen a photograph of her with a bulging, pregnant belly

'Afina' also posted pictures of heavily pregnant women such as this one - asking for others to share their images of their sizeable bumps, AMBA said

The fetish websites identified by AMBA feature pictures of pregnant women, both clothed and nude

The bogus user would go to extreme lengths to appear as a bona fide local mother, befriending group members to appear more legitimate to Facebook page administrators.

Afina posted pictures of her 'massive twin bump' - really Ms Ireland's photo - in one group but a picture of what appeared to be a different woman in another.

'He (sic) is my final bump shot before I gave birth... Anyone else care to post theirs?' Afina said.

Ms Mountifield said it seemed it was a case of the bigger the bump, the better, for the fetishists.

'I think it's just them knowing that it's a twin or triplet belly that might excite them just a little bit more,' she said.

In a statement earlier this month, Carolyn Lister from the New Zealand Multiple Births Association said she believed 'Afina' was actually a man.

'I was first alerted to something suspicious as he joined two different clubs’ pages at the same time in different parts of the country.

'It was also odd he [posing as a ‘she’] actually asked for photos rather than just posting one. People often share pictures of their own accord rather than being asked.

'There are lots of multiple birth clubs around the world that have been hit.'

'Afina’s profile has been removed – I reported it (to Facebook) – but no doubt others will appear.'

Ms Mountifield reported the profile to authorities.

'I'M THIS TALL AND THIS WEIGHT. WHERE DID YOU GET TO?': WHY SO MANY WOMEN SHARE PREGNANT BELLY PICS

Many pregnant mothers carrying multiple babies are sharing pictures of their bellies with women in similar circ*mstances online, according to the Australian Multiple Births Association.

Mother-of-three Ali Mountifield issued a warning to expectant mothers on behalf of the Australian Multiple Births Association

Communities have formed across Australia, in Canada and New Zealand, said AMBA spokeswoman Ali Mountifield.

Ms Mountifield said expecting mothers turned to other women to compare experiences.

'People just are dumbfounded there could be three babies in there,' she said. 'That's the fascination.

'Someone can be really big and only have one baby.

'Other people carry more than one and are maybe be a lot smaller than them.

'Also, when you're quite early in the pregnancy and you're showing really quickly people are going: "how big am I going to get"?

'(Mothers) want to get a touch point, a comparison. "I'm this tall and I'm this weight... where did you get to?'

'It's sort of bonding with like-minded people and just getting a gauge of where you body will go.

'There's no way of knowing what the body will do. It just gives them a little bit of a baseline, maybe.'

Ms Mountifield said pregnancy is a sacred time and advised women to share photos with whoever they choose.

'Photos should be shared with whom you choose, in the way that you wish, not stolen for the gratification of others,' she said.

Young mother exposes ‘preggophile’ who 'masqueraded as a woman' (2024)
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